I was deeply saddened to learn of the passing of fellow Financial Planner, Stuart Knight, this week. His death at just 59 is both shocking and a stark reminder that life is not to be taken for granted.
I first met Stuart when I was an account manager at Standard Life, working with his firm. From the outset, he struck me as one of the ‘good guys’—always willing to help, easygoing, and genuinely interested in others. These qualities made him not only a successful and trusted Financial Planner but also a respected and well-liked individual. Anyone who spent time with him would know him to be a wonderful, caring person.
In late 2023, he and his wife, Elaine, contacted me for retirement coaching as they began planning the next chapter of their lives. Such is the capricious nature of fate, they didn’t get a chance to fulfil their plans.
Momento Mori
The Stoics and philosophers of ancient Italy adopted the phrase ‘Momento Mori’ which translates from Latin to mean “Remember Death’. Although morbid when interpreted precisely, the point is that remembering death is inevitable and encourages us to live with purpose, humility, and an appreciation for the more important things in life.
Sadly, Stuart’s death is one of several people I know directly or indirectly who have passed away far too soon recently. You probably do too. Logically, we all know we shouldn’t take life for granted, but it’s easy to fall into the trap of believing it will happen to someone else, not us.
So let’s take these tragic losses as a salient lesson to live our lives as the Stoics did; let’s remember death and live with purpose and gratitude. Let’s take decisions that won’t lead to regret of a life unlived, of experiences missed and relationships savoured.
I don’t believe anyone approaches the end of their life wishing they spent more time working. Our money enables us to do the things that are most important to us, not to leave behind. If you plan to work one more year to top up the bank account a bit more, remember the bank of money may grow but the bank of life gets smaller. Don’t tip the balance the wrong way.
My thoughts and wishes go to Elaine, David, Kitty & John and everyone else who has lost loved ones too soon.
Rest in Peace, Stuart. 💐
Rest in Peace, Philippa. 💐
